Now that you have decided to read this article, we can safely assume that you have already met your crush, and you have wanted to approach him/her the right way ever since. And you are on the right path if you have such a thought because love is often an indirect outcome of a first impression. You need some preparation before you can have your first date.

Train Yourself to Calm Down

Self-control is an important ability to master for a smooth date, especially if you have never been with a woman before. Initiating a conversation should be an easy matter on normal occasions, yet stuttering is a common phenomenon during a romantic date. Therefore, do not be overly confident with yourself. Doing yoga, practicing breathing meditation, reading novels, and listening to music are several activities that can sharpen your mind and improve your self-control.

Prepare a Few Simple First-Date Questions

Scripting the conversation starter has many benefits. First, you can evaluate whether or not your thoughts have any tendency toward sexist or racist stereotyping. You must observe your words because not all questions and issues are appropriate to talk about in the first date.

Unless you are on a blind date, you must profile your crush first. However, you must get the difference between stalking and profiling. Staking means acquiring information without the consent of the targeted individual, while profiling means deducing general info about a person through the means that you and him/her are aware of. For instance, if you are on a date with a stranger, you can ask to follow his/her social media account first. And if your request gets accepted, it means that he/she allows you to get to know him/her.

After that, you should guess his/her hobbies, favorite movies, traveling habits, etc. Make a conversation starter out of your knowledge about your crush. Nevertheless, you must not act like you know everything.

Apply Some Pheromone Fragrance

Humans can sense pheromone. Unlike regular perfumes, pheromone fragrance will give you a subtle boost to your charm through your scent. It is a game changer because the way you smell is a strong factor that can determine your date’s impression about you. And you want to do your best to get your crush attracted to you.

However, there are many pheromone products available these days. You need to read some reviews first before you pick a brand.

Groom Yourself

Before you go on a date, you must pay attention to your personal hygiene. You should take a bath, shave your facial hair, hair on your genitals, your back, and your legs. Do not forget to trim your nasal hair too. You may not get into bed on the first date, but being prepared is way better than sorry.

The next thing to do is to apply grooming products, such as an antiperspirant, mouth freshener, pomade, makeups, hairspray, etc. And the rule about grooming for the first date is to appear charming. You must avoid wearing lavish accessories or eccentric clothes.

Practice in Front of a Mirror

Practice makes perfect. And in your case, you have to simulate a real conversation on the date in front of a mirror. You should practice your greeting, your voice’s tone, and choice of words. You must do this step to overcome your nervous feeling.

Another thing to observe on this stage is the way you walk. You shall not slouch because it is a sign of weakness. Correct your posture and walk upright. Also, you should not drag your steps.